
Couples Constellations
Heal the Blueprint of Love and Relationships - Online and in Ubud, Bali
Heal Generational Patterns & Step Into Your Best Possible Relationship
Our most intimate relationships are shaped long before we meet our partner. The people we are drawn to, the patterns that repeat, and even the way our partners behave with us often trace back to our family of origin blueprint.
Couples Constellations is a powerful systemic approach that helps you and your partner identify and release the unconscious dynamics inherited from your families. By repairing these energetic bonds, you can create a new, healthier foundation for your relationship—one that supports love, intimacy, and mutual respect.
What is Couples Constellations?
Couples Constellations is a specialised form of Family Constellations that focuses on intimate relationships. Rather than only looking at surface-level conflict, it explores and releases the hidden loyalties, attachment styles, and systemic entanglements that influence how you and your partner connect.
This work is about:
Understanding the family blueprint – recognising how your upbringing, and the energetic relationship you have with your own parents, shapes the way you give and receive love.
Repairing systemic imbalances – creating healthier energetic relationships with your family system without needing them to be directly involved.
Transforming partnership dynamics – allowing both partners to show up in a more conscious, supportive, and loving way through addressing the core wounds that are triggered within your relationship.
The Benefits of Couples Constellations
Recognise repeating relationship patterns, deeply understand where they originate and release the entanglements or core wounding that underpins them.
Repair your family blueprint, freeing you from unconscious entanglements.
Show up as the healthiest version of yourself, both in love and in life.
Strengthen the relationship you already have or gracefully and consciously release this relationship if this is the decision you make- Couples Constellations can be used effectively for repair and for separation.
Shift attachment patterns so that anxious, avoidant, or disorganised styles move towards secure connection.
Create a foundation of conscious love, built on self-responsibility and healthy ways of relating.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
— Carl Jung
How Does Family Constellations Work?
Learn from Yildiz Sethi, my teacher- a highly experienced Family Constellations practitioner, educator and author
How Family Constellations Changed My Life
Fifteen years ago, I stumbled into a Family Constellations session at a yoga centre. I didn’t know what to expect. But within that small group, something cracked open inside me.
Even though I wasn’t ready to go deeper right then, I knew this work was different. It wasn’t just talk therapy. It felt like healing on a soul level.
Later, when I started my own healing journey in earnest—through trauma, PMDD, panic attacks, and crippling anxiety—Family Constellations became one of the tools that changed everything for me. It helped me understand where my emotional patterns and relationship choices came from, and gave me the space to do something new.
And now, it’s one of the most meaningful things I offer my clients.
What Happens in an online Family Constellation Session?
Sessions are held online one-on-one, or in Ubud, Bali and typically last 60–90 minutes. You don’t need to prepare anything in advance.
We’ll explore the issues that are present for you in your relationship, and together we’ll begin to gently uncover what’s sitting underneath it.
You might find yourself getting answers to questions you couldn’t quite name. Or simply feeling lighter, clearer, and more at ease.
What You’ll Need:
Yourself
A piece of blank paper, a pair of scissors and a pen
That’s it. Watch the magic unfold.
Important: After your session, it’s recommended to avoid discussing or journaling about it for at least three days, allowing the subconscious shifts to fully integrate.
Camilla facilitating a Family Constellations therapy session for actress Nadya Arina
Camilla facilitating a group Family Constellations workshop
The Science: Mirror Neurons and Attachment
Mirror Neurons
Our brains are wired for resonance through mirror neurons—cells that fire both when we act and when we observe someone else acting. In relationships, this means our inner wounds and unresolved emotions are often mirrored back to us by our partner. When one partner heals, it greatly influences the other. This is one reason why systemic constellation work creates such deep transformation.
Attachment Styles
Attachment theory explains how our early experiences with caregivers shape the way we relate to others. Anxious, avoidant, or disorganised attachment styles can create tension in relationships. Couples Constellations allows partners to see the roots of these patterns, heal them, and move towards secure, balanced intimacy.
Is this for you?
Couples Constellations is suitable for couples who:
Are both fully consenting and committed to doing the work together, and preferably on the same page as to whether repair or graceful separation is the desired outcome to this work.
Are ready to take responsibility for their own side of the dynamic.
Want to explore deeper family influences rather than just surface conflict.
Feel called to build a stronger foundation for their relationship.
It is not suitable where there is ongoing abuse, active addiction, or lack of consent.
How Does Couples Constellations Work?
Both partners attend the sessions together.
The constellation process maps the unseen dynamics at play within each partner’s family of origin.
Through guided systemic exercises, partners release inherited entanglements and step into healthier relational patterns.
No family members need to be present or living for this to work—the work is about your energetic relationship with them.
Ready to Begin?
Book a Couples Constellations Strategy Session and we’ll get to work.
It’s your chance to feel seen, heard, and supported as we map out a healing path together.
Learn more about pricing and packages here.
Couples Constellations Pricing & Packages
The Process
A Couples Constellations package usually involves four to eight sessions starting with your initial strategy session, depending on the issue and depth of the work.
Each session builds progressively, helping you gain clarity, repair systemic wounds, and establish new ways of relating. The aim is not simply to reduce conflict but to help you both step into a new pattern of love, respect, and connection.
Begin Your Journey
Couples Constellations is an opportunity to step out of cycles of blame and step into conscious healing. By addressing the unseen influences of your family systems, you and your partner can create a relationship that is more stable, compassionate, and deeply fulfilling.
If you and your partner are ready to begin this journey, I invite you to reach out and book your first session.
How Do Family Constellations & Rapid Core Healing Compare to Talk Therapy?
Whilst talk therapy is undoubtedly important in crisis, creating lasting meaningful change that allows us freedom in moving forward in our lives is far more quickly attained with Family Constellations and Rapid Core Healing, which work with the unconscious mind, and the energetic field of our family system (things not touched by standard talk therapy and most psychotherapies). This is true change therapy, for those who are ready to move on with their lives. And whilst the price may be higher than a government-subsidised therapy service, the work typically takes only a few sessions to drastically change long-held challenges, in contrast to the years one typically finds themselves in talk therapy.
Meet Camilla
15 years wellness industry experience, 7+ years clinical practice
BHSc Naturopathy, Sydney
GradCert Human Nutrition, Melbourne
Systemic Family Constellations, Australia
Emotional Mind Integration, Australia
Rapid Core Healing, Australia
Advanced Systemic Constellations Training: Business, Health and Relationship Constellations, Australia
Raw Living raw food trainings, London & Iceland
Gabor Mate Compassionate Enquiry Short course
Heuristic Trauma Practitioner Training Australia
Kundalini Yoga Teacher 220 hours London (2012)
Kundalini Yoga Teacher Level 2 training Iceland & Los Angeles (2013)
Reiki Level 1 & 2 (2006), Brighton UK
SIBO Mastery Training
Deep compassion, empathy and ability to hold space without judgement
and more..
What people are saying..
When the family has been brought into its natural order, the individual can leave it behind him while still feeling the strength of his family supporting him.
Only when the connection to his family is acknowledged, and the person’s responsibility seen clearly and then distributed, can the individual feel unburdened and go about his personal affairs without anything from the past weighing him down or holding him back.
Bert Hellinger, Founder of Family Constellations
In Case You Were Wondering..
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Family Constellations is a powerful therapeutic approach that uncovers hidden family dynamics and unresolved trauma that may be influencing your current life, health, or relationships.
By revealing these unconscious patterns, Family Constellations helps restore balance, release emotional blocks, and create healthier ways of relating.
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This method explores your family system through a guided process that identifies entanglements, inherited trauma, and loyalty bonds that may be affecting you.
In sessions, we create a “constellation” of key family members—using representatives, objects, or guided imagery—to bring these dynamics to light and allow resolution.
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Family Constellations can support healing in many areas, including:
Relationship conflicts and repeating patterns
Emotional trauma and anxiety
PMDD and stress-related conditions
Self-worth issues and blocked success
Grief, loss, or unresolved family trauma
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No. Unlike family counselling, Family Constellations does not require your family to be present, or even aware of the work you’re doing. It focuses on systemic patterns and generational influences, not day-to-day family dynamics.
The work is experiential and subconscious, offering deep transformation in a short time
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No. Even if you know very little about your family background, the process can still, and often does, uncover hidden dynamics. Your body and subconscious often carry the imprint of these patterns, which can surface during a session.
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Many clients experience a major shift from just one session, though complex patterns may require a few sessions or integration with complementary therapies like Rapid Core Healing or Emotional Mind Integration.
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Yes. Emotional stress and unresolved trauma can intensify conditions like PMDD, anxiety, and chronic illness.
By resolving underlying emotional patterns, Family Constellations can support nervous system regulation and overall wellbeing.
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Yes. Online Family Constellations sessions are just as effective as in-person sessions. We use guided imagery and objects to represent family members, allowing deep systemic work in a virtual setting.
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Private sessions are one-to-one and deeply personalised.
Group sessions involve multiple participants, where individuals can act as representatives in each other’s constellations, creating a shared healing experience.
Both formats are highly effective and profound.
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You can book a private session, a strategy session to make a plan for deep transformational healing using Family Constellations and Rapid Core Healing. If you’re unsure what options suits you best, book in for a redeemable low-cost 15 minute call.
If you want to experience a group session with me, make sure you sign up to my newsletter to hear about upcoming Bali retreats.
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I’m a naturopath and trauma-informed facilitator who supports people using natural medicine, nervous-system regulation, Rapid Core Healing, Family Constellations, Kundalini Meditation, Kundalini Yoga, and Yoga Nidra. I stay firmly within my scope and I’m clear about where my work begins and ends.
What I do
Education and support: I teach practical tools that calm the body, steady mood, and support sleep, energy, and focus.
Natural therapies: I use nutrition, herbs, and supplements (when indicated), plus gentle mind–body methods that help the nervous system feel safe.
Trauma-informed facilitation: I guide structured sessions (RCH, Constellations, Yoga Nidra) designed to reduce charge without re-traumatising.
Collaboration: With your consent, I’m happy to coordinate with your GP, psychologist, or psychiatrist so care is joined-up.
What I don’t do
No diagnosis of mental-health conditions.
No medication management, changes, or advice to stop prescribed treatment.
No crisis care. If you’re in acute distress (e.g., suicidal thoughts, recent self-harm, psychosis, unmanaged bipolar disorder), I’ll help you access urgent medical or psychological support and pause our work until you’re safe.
Boundaries and safety
Screening before we start to make sure this is appropriate for you.
Informed consent in clear language—what we’re doing, why, and possible reactions.
Pacing that matches your nervous system; we go only as far as you can stay present.
Red-flag referrals when specialist mental-health care is needed.
Confidentiality and respectful record-keeping.